*For all services, I don’t see anyone under the age of 33, no exceptions.*
I do not provide any kind of fetish or role play services.
For Intimacy Coaching, FS & GFE experiences, I only schedule one client on any given day :)
Rates
I offer both incall/outcall for all services.
Relational Coaching
*For Intimacy Coaching, which is a different service, please scroll down further.
Life is relational, whether it be with friends, family members, romantic partners, neighbors, colleagues, or with ourselves — arguably the most important relationship of all because how we relate to ourselves affects how we relate to others. This service is for men who would like guidance in seeing more clearly and improving how they relate to themselves and to others — whether internally, in social settings, friendships, dating, or with providers in my industry. Maybe you have been feeling unfulfilled or out of alignment with some of your relationships. This offers a chance for you to not only share any frustrations and challenges you have faced, but also take responsibility for creating positive change in your life. The hottest men are the ones who work on themselves and take accountability for how they show up in the world! I will extend a compassionate ear, give perspective, and suggest steps you can take to move forward. My approach is honest and straightforward, while also being kind and understanding. I offer a judgment-free zone, so that you can be comfortable sharing openly. When booked by itself, our session can occur in a public setting such as a café or park. When paired with intimate services, I can host at my incall location or meet you at your hotel.
Check out my blog post on relational coaching for more details!
I’ve also written about loneliness and why “ripping off the bandaid” doesn’t work in sexual intimacy.
*Please note that I am not a counselor/therapist and cannot offer advice regarding mental health conditions and unresolved trauma. I am also not a kink provider and cannot offer guidance in exploring this realm.
*There is a minimum of 1 hour for this service whether you book it by itself or pair it with other services. If you have a lot you’d like to discuss, I highly recommend booking a longer appointment — you’d be surprised how much comes up in a session when you find yourself in a nonjudgemental space where you feel safe, listened to, and supported! Many of my new clients book only an hour to start, but then find themselves going over time, almost every time. You can also book an hour with the option to extend in-session, but keep in mind that it can interrupt the flow of conversation.
1 hour — $100
1.5 hours — $145
2 hours — $185
NEW: Social/Emotional Support
As human beings, we all have the need to be seen. It is vital that we are witnessed through our milestones, our triumphs, and our grief. To be witnessed means to have someone be fully present with us for these moments without judgment and without trying to “fix” anything. Unfortunately, not all of us have people in our lives who can show up for us in this capacity. There are a myriad of reasons why we might be in this position — maybe we are going through some sort of life transition where we have lost touch with people who used to be close, or maybe we had never formed this type of relationship with anyone before. Regardless, it is essential to our well being to have this kind of support and to know that we don’t have to go through it all alone, whether it is something we are celebrating or something we are grieving. Perhaps you have an open-mic performance or an art showcase you’d like someone to attend, or a job promotion or project launch you’d like someone to celebrate with you, or a personal growth milestone or medical diagnosis you’d like to share with someone, or a loss or change you are grieving. Whatever’s going on in your life, I will show up as that platonic, kind, and caring support person for you. This can occur in a public space such as a relevant event, a park, a cafe or restaurant. I am unable to host at my location for this service, but we can also meet at your location if you are staying in a hotel (no private residences).
Check out my blog post to read about the inspiration behind this new offering!
$100/hr — 1 hr minimum
Platonic Dates
Platonic dates are for anyone who wants company exploring the city, dining out, seeing a show, visiting a museum, indulging in a spa day, hiking the outdoors, or any other activities you might have an interest in! I’ve also had clients who would like to spend more time in the presence of a woman in a laidback and pressure-free environment to increase their comfort level in their communication and interactions with women in general. This could also be a way for you to get to know me better before deciding if you’d like to book a GFE date, intimacy coaching, or FBSM session. Some clients pair this with one of my other services as a way to get acquainted first — this is a great idea if you want to ease your nerves before going into one of my other sessions. Additionally, some people are just feeling lonely or are having difficulty making meaningful friendships and would simply like someone kind and compassionate to hang out with — if anyone is in this situation, I completely understand and wrote a blog post about this very topic.
$200/hr — 1 hr minimum if booking by itself, up to 6 hours in a day
$100/half hr — Half hour minimum if pairing with other services
Dining dates: I recommend 2 hours, especially if you’d like to dine at an upscale dinner or lunch restaurant. For 1-1.5 hour dates involving food, I recommend a more casual spot like a café.
Platonic Date Guidelines:
No physical touch other than a friendly hug hello/goodbye.
You are welcome to add on any of my other services, but the 1 hour minimum still applies for FBSM & GFE, and the 2 hour minimum for intimacy coaching would still apply regardless of how many platonic hours you book. Relational coaching can be included without any additional minimum.
The maximum hours for any combination of services booked in a day is 6 hours. For example, if you want to add on 2 hours of GFE to a full day of platonic activities, the maximum number of platonic hours booked would be 4.
If you are a former or regular client who has only booked GFE dates with me in the past, you are still welcome to book platonic dates :)
Platonic Cuddling
This service is for anyone who needs a little boost of oxytocin through (non-sexual & fully-clothed) platonic physical touch! We all need touch to feel nourished and cared for. Living in the digital age of online interaction, being bombarded with nonstop stressful headlines, and being part of a society fueled by fast-paced busy lifestyles, disconnection and loneliness have been on the rise. It has become increasingly difficult to make real-life meaningful friends as adults, much less find ways to get our fundamental needs for touch met. This negatively impacts our mental, emotional, and physical health. Whether it’s someone putting their hand on your knee, head on your shoulder, locking arms with you, intertwining their fingers with yours, embracing you in a hug, or holding you so that you can finally let go of the weight you’ve been carrying, these are all gestures that fill up our souls. This hour of compassionate, kind, and caring touch will help you melt away some of that tension and help you feel held. You can decompress by sharing about what’s going in your life, or you can rest in stillness, knowing that nothing needs to be said.
Check out this blog post I wrote on loneliness!
*Platonic cuddling can be surprisingly intimate! I will meet each individual at their comfort level, so the first session doesn’t necessarily need to entail full on spooning (although it can); we will start with whatever feels best in the moment, even if that’s minimal touch.
$300/hr — 1 hr minimum
Multi-Session Packages: For those who have done at least 1 platonic cuddling session with me and would like to continue booking it monthly (or more frequently) as a form of self-care! This must be paid for in full in advance, and each session must be used within a month’s time. For example, a 3 session package must be used within 3 months from the date of purchase.
Two 1hr sessions = $550
Three 1hr sessions = $750
Four 1hr sessions = $900
Five 1hr sessions = $1000
Intimacy Coaching
Check out my blog post on intimacy coaching if you’d like more details!
I also wrote a blog post on why “ripping off the bandaid” doesn’t work in sexual intimacy.
This service is for anyone who wants to become more comfortable and confident in their capacity to connect closely with others and with themselves - through learning ways to communicate better and exploration of physical touch. Maybe you’ve never experienced physical intimacy before or maybe you have, but still feel there is more you’d like to learn for this type of encounter with a woman. Whether you want the basics broken down and explained (for example, I absolutely love teaching the intricacies of kissing!) or the ability to discover your likes and dislikes in a safe and nonjudgmental space, I will provide a pressure-free experience where you can ask as many questions as you’d like and get as much (non-medical) advice and feedback as you’re open to. I can also help you get more comfortable entering into the dating world if it is new or has been awhile for you. The point of this session is not to get better at “performing;” it’s to be more present with what’s happening in any given moment so that you can connect on a deeper level with yourself and with your partner.
*This does not include FBSM, anal stimulation for either party, kink/fetish, role play, PSE, or wrestling.
*I don’t offer medical advice. Although I will provide a safe space to openly discuss and explore the challenges of ED or PE, please consider consulting with a medical professional to see if there are underlying causes due to things like health conditions, substance use, or medication side effects. You can also seek out licensed sex therapists — professionals who work in depth with all aspects of sexual dysfunctions. Some even work with sex surrogates, with whom clients can see regularly under the guidance of the therapist in order to heal sexual dysfunction and trauma. Another resource could be sexological bodyworkers, although I am not familiar with the intricacies of their work.
The minimums listed below are to ensure that we don’t feel rushed. This will allow us to take things slow and establish a level of comfort and ease within the experience.
*️⃣ If you have a lot you’d like to discuss about your history, challenges, and/or relational dynamics, I highly suggest adding on an hour of relational coaching for $100. We would start with this so that the rest of our time can be allotted to the physical exploration.
Intimacy Coaching — Exploration/Technique
2 hours = $1600
For those who want general guidance in all the technicalities of intimacy, whether a start to finish type of overview or an exploration of certain aspects/activities, I will teach you different skills and ways of touching. Or maybe you already feel proficient with technique, but sex has become rushed or mechanical to you, and you’d like to practice slowing things down to incorporate more intimacy and connection.
Intimacy Coaching — Warmup
2 hours = $1200
Specifically for those who have challenges with erections. Includes what the Exploration/Technique lesson details above; however, given the nature of the challenges we’ll be addressing, there will be more of a focus on warming up in various ways with intimate touch and nervous system regulation.
Intro to Intimacy Coaching
1 hour = $400
For those who are not quite ready for intimacy coaching. We can discuss some of your challenges and practice the art of touch at whatever pace and to whatever extent you are comfortable with. This can be fully/partially clothed or not. We will be using hands only (no mouths) to explore mutual touch. The experience can also include mutual self-pleasure if you’d like, but it does not include FS. If you prefer to start with only platonic touch (non-sexual & fully clothed), Platonic Cuddling is another service you can use as a way to ease in at $300/hr — details in the corresponding section above.
Multi-Session Packages: For those who have already seen me for at least 1 intimacy coaching session and feel it would benefit them to have coaching sessions on a regular basis in order to better integrate the tools that they’ve learned. Even if you have fully understood the skills on an intellectual level, it can take time to find the right partner and environment to incorporate them into your personal life. By booking regular sessions with me, you’ll be able to face your fears/anxieties at a gradual pace and practice the skills you’ve learned in a safe setting, so that they can become more embodied. This form of exposure therapy will help to create more neural pathways that connect intimacy with confidence, pleasure, and ease. This must be paid for in full in advance, and each session must be used within a month’s time. For example, a 3 session package must be used within 3 months from the date of purchase.
Intimacy Coaching — Exploration/Technique
Two 2hr sessions = $3000
Three 2hr sessions = $4200
Four 2hr sessions = $5200
Intimacy Coaching — Warmup
Two 2hr sessions = $2200
Three 2hr sessions = $3000
Four 2hr sessions = $3600
Intro to Intimacy Coaching
Two 1hr sessions = $750
Three 1hr sessions = $1050
Four 1hr sessions = $1300
Full Body Sensual Massage
*I will be phasing out all FBSM services by the end of 2026. After that, only established clients will have access to these.
*I raised rates for GFE services! Previous rates will be honored for all established clients who have seen me before May 2026.
FBSM 1 hour = $500 ~ You will leave feeling relaxed & taken care of! This includes body glides and is somewhat interactive — meaning you have the freedom to touch me (with hands only) everywhere except for a few off limits areas. This is completely optional of course as the main purpose of the experience is for you to lie back, receive, and unwind. *Note that mutual touch is only allowed during the massage, not before or after, and does not include cuddling — these are only apart of FBSM GFE bookings. Additionally, if you know that you’ll need a lot of emotional connection to actually get to a point of relaxation, I recommend booking a longer GFE session.
**We will have a few minutes to chat at the beginning of and throughout the massage, but to get the most out of the physical experience, it’s best to leave your mind and settle into your body, which means we won’t be talking for most of it (other than me checking in periodically to see how things are feeling), so if you know you’ll be extra nervous and would like more time to chat and get acquainted before the massage starts, feel free to add on a half hour or more of platonic time for $100/half hr or $200/hr— this can help to ease your nerves so that you can actually relax during the massage. Another option is to add on an hour of relational coaching for $100 (the minimum for this is 1hr) — this is especially appropriate for clients who are interested in eventually doing intimacy coaching. Relational coaching is only for those who actually want to work on themselves, not to make small talk, so if you just want to hang out and have casual conversation, please book platonic time instead; please see the corresponding sections for descriptions of all these services.
FBSM FS 1 hour = $1000 ~ Includes everything GFE does except for kissing, cuddling, and emotional intimacy. Please note that this is a straightforward (but very sensual) service, so if you’d like a more intimate experience, you can upgrade to FBSM GFE ($2000 for 1hr, $2500 for 1.5hr, $3000 for 2hrs). This experience can be as interactive as you’d like! If you feel like just lying back and receiving, that is perfectly fine. This service is also great for anyone who gets intimidated by a typical GFE date and tends to feel an internal pressure to have to perform or please. With this service, you can relax knowing there is never any expectation of any kind of reciprocation. *For my full list of GFE rates, scroll down further. All new clients requesting GFE services, including FBSM GFE, will also need to fill out an application in addition to my booking form to ensure that we are compatible to meet — details on my contact page.
FBSM Couple’s Lesson
1 hour = $1000 ~ Do you have a woman in your life you’d like to spice things up with? During this session, I will teach her how to give a sensual massage, complete with body glides, by demonstrating step by step on you and having her practice! This is not just a novelty experience, but you’ll be able to take these skills with you into the bedroom in your personal lives. Sensual massage is a great way to enhance foreplay, as well as increase intimacy and connection. This would also be a fun way to celebrate special occasions like anniversaries, birthdays, Valentine’s Day, etc.
*This session is only enjoyable if BOTH people are interested, so please do not pressure your partner to learn something she doesn’t want to. Both of you will have to go through the same screening protocol listed on my contact page. Each person needs to fill out a separate booking form.
*If I meet a male massage provider I can partner with locally, I may be able to offer lessons for both parties in the future, or at the very least, demo on that person rather than on you if your partner is uncomfortable with that. Another option is if you have a guy friend you can bring along (he would also need to submit a booking form and go through the same screening process), so I could give the demo/massage on him side by side with you and your partner — this would cost an additional $500.
GFE Dates
*I raised rates for GFE services! Previous rates will be honored for all established clients who have seen me before May 2026.
GFE dates are ideal for those who want a romantic companion. “GirlFriend Experience” just means an experience encompassing physical, emotional, and intellectual closeness and does not involve “unsafe” services.
Although my minimum for this service is 1 hour, if you are someone who gets nervous and needs some time to get acquainted, I recommend booking something longer. The extra time allows for us to explore true intimacy and cultivate genuine connection without feeling rushed. Because I am very selective about who I see and only schedule 1 GFE client on any given day, rest assured you will receive my undivided attention, energy and presence. All new clients requesting a GFE date will need to fill out an application in addition to my booking form to ensure that we are compatible to meet — please see my contact page for details.
*I don’t offer anal stimulation for either party, kink/fetish, foot play, role play, PSE, or wrestling.
Dinner/lunch dates: I recommend a minimum of 4 hours, especially if you’d like to dine at an upscale restaurant. For 3 hour dates, I recommend a more quick serve setting like a cafe or casual dining spot.
1 hour = $2000
1.5 hours = $2500
2 hours = $3000
3 hours = $3500
4 hours = $3800
5 hours = $4200
6 hours = $4600
Overnights/FMTY
I no longer offer overnight or FMTY dates. If you’d like to see me over the span of multiple days, each date can be booked separately for up to 6 hours/day.
Reconnection
If I have broken up with you or declined to see you, it was because we lacked compatibility in some way, or there was some transgression on your part, or both. Whatever the case, many clients have reached out for a 2nd chance without any kind of apology or peace offering, but rather with a sense of entitlement. Of course I don’t entertain such requests, but if you’d like to be given another chance and are actually willing to have an honest conversation about what went wrong and how we can move forward in a mutually respectful way, I’d be happy to offer that. Just email me and I will confirm whether or not we will be able to proceed.
The fee to be given another chance is $2000 and is to be submitted via Zelle only — this is only for the privilege of reconnecting and does not go towards any of my other services. Additionally, moving forward, all appointments will require that you submit a 100% deposit ahead of time.
Deposits:
All clients (both new and regular) must submit a deposit at the time of booking which will go towards the total cost of the session. For new clients, deposits are due within 72hrs of us agreeing on a date/time for our meeting. If I don’t receive it by then, the date can no longer be held for you.
25% deposit
Refundable if cancelled with at least 72 hrs notice.
Transferable to a future appointment if shorter notice cancellation is due to sickness, medical emergencies, or last minute flight disruptions.
For new clients who are unable to provide a work verification link on their booking form, it is 50% for our initial meeting.
Regardless of how far in advance you reach out to schedule the appointment, if you wait until within 48 hours of the appt time to submit your deposit: 100% deposit + additional $500 short notice fee
If you wait until within 24 hours of the appt time: 100% deposit + additional $1000 rush fee
You are always welcome to pay a larger amount than the required 25% or the full amount electronically ahead of time (or in-person) if you don’t want to worry about bringing cash. I have no preference between all the payment options.
Accepted forms of payment for a deposit are:
Zelle
Cash App
Credit/Debit card via Square invoicing.* The name that would appear on your card statement is “CMLLC.”
Refundable minus the 3.4% processing fee as long as my cancellation policy is adhered to.
*Short notice new client deposits (submitted within 48 hours of the appt time) cannot use a credit/debit card to pay for deposits.
I do not accept PayPal or Venmo.
In the rare event that I need to cancel due to sickness, I would refund your full deposit.
Extras:
Travel fee for outcall appointments: There is no fee if your location is within the city of Chicago or by O’hare airport. Anything farther is $100 for every hour of total drive time from my location. I will let you know any costs ahead of time upon mapping it out.
Short notice requests to meet within 48 hours, by all clients (both new and familiar): It’s rare I can fulfill short notice requests, but in the event that I can, I would be happy to accommodate. In these situations, a fee of $500 and a 100% deposit are required.
Same day requests to meet within 24 hours, by all clients (both new and familiar): It’s rare I can fulfill last minute requests, but in the event that I am available to make it happen, a rush fee of $1000 and a 100% deposit are required.
Fine Print:
*I don’t offer PSE, kink, fetish, foot play, role play, porn, wrestling, or virtual content such as video or photos.
*I don’t negotiate rates. Do not ask.
*I don’t partake in drugs. I don’t smoke cigarettes.
*My services are meant to be experienced w/ presence and awareness. I have no tolerance for those who show up faded on any kind of substance. I will leave immediately and your deposit will be forfeited.
*1st time meetings must be one on one; no group events. Couples, triads, and duo dates with other professional companions will be considered on a case-by-case basis.
Cancellation Policy:
Please give me at least 72 hours notice whenever possible. If less than 72 hours notice is given, your deposit will be forfeited, except in the event of sickness, medication emergencies, and last minute flight disruptions, in which case, your deposit can be transferred to a rescheduled appointment.
If you are feeling sick in any way, please reschedule or cancel for our mutual health. If I show up to our appointment and realize that you are sick, I will leave immediately and your deposit will be forfeited. Please note that the common cold is infectious from a few days before your symptoms appear until all of the symptoms are gone.